Being asked to be part of the bridal party is exciting, flattering, and yes, more than a little stressful. Before the duties of the actual wedding day, there are a host of other details that need to be handled by members of the wedding party: shopping, the shower, the bachelor party…And of course, all the emotional support that’s required. As one of the leading sellers of gorgeous cubic zirconia jewelry, Birkat Elyon has seen plenty of engaged couples and their friends. So here are some “do’s and don’ts” for members of the bridal party.
MAID OF HONOR
One of the big “do’s” for this important role is helping the bride shop for her dress. But remember that it’s HER dress – so “don’t” push her to choose something that you want her to wear. The thinking is similar when it comes to choosing bridesmaid’s dresses. “Do” help find dresses that flatter the figures of each bridesmaid, and stay within their budgets. Also, help make fitting appointments.
Another key duty for the maid of honor is to take the initiative in putting together the bridal shower (remember to invite the female members of the groom’s family).
On the wedding day, offer plenty of emotional support before the ceremony, adjust the bride’s train and veil, hold the bouquet and offer a toast at the reception.
BRIDESMAID
“Do” offer to help with whatever errands the bride may need before the Big Day. That includes assisting with any “DIY” projects like decorations, invitations or favors. Also, “do” help plan the shower and bachelorette party. During the ceremony, help take care of the flower girl(s) and ring bearer. Now for those “don’ts”. Don’t complain about the bridesmaid’s dress (even if you hate it). When it comes to your hair and makeup, don’t hog time: stick to the order assigned at the salon, and remember that the bride takes priority.
BEST MAN
“Do” plan a great bachelor party, but “don’t” get the groom in trouble with his bride-to-be. Arrange transportation for that bachelor party, as well as for the wedding party on the official day. Offer plenty of “guy” support, but don’t try to talk the groom out of getting married (especially on his wedding day). “Do” make the first toast (but don’t embarrass the couple with tacky stories).
GROOMSMAN
“Do” help the Best Man with any tasks or last-minute errands that pop up on the wedding day. Help out at the bachelor party and rehearsal dinner. Socialize with the bridesmaids and guests (but don’t get sloppy drunk and embarrassing).
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