The Big Wedding is sort of the standard. But more and more, couples are opting for non-traditional ways to get married. Birkat Elyon, who supplies them with gorgeous high-quality cubic zirconia engagement and wedding rings, shares some alternative ways to tie the knot.
THE ADVENTURE ELOPEMENT: Eloping has long been a way to escape from all the expectations and pressures around a wedding. Why not kick it up a notch? You could get married soaring in a hot air balloon, or during a hike to a beautiful site. Camping, off-roading, even paddle boarding, offer ways to combine your vows with an unforgettable adventure.
THE BACKYARD WEDDING: Keep it cozy and down-to-earth with a simple backyard event. There are companies that will handle everything at this scale: chairs, food, you name it. Much easier than having a dozen different vendors.
CITY HALL: Fans of Sex and The City will remember how Carrie and Big finally tied the knot in a simple ceremony at City Hall. You can opt for the same but choose one in another city; then hit the town afterward for some great local food and drink.
MINI-WEDDING AT A RENTAL HOME: With so many elegant homes for rent these days, find one that suits your style, and hold a small ceremony there.
Of course, if you opt for something different than the typical big wedding, be prepared for pushback from well-meaning friends and relatives. Remember to stay focused on what’s most important to you and your partner.
On a similar note, manage your expectations. Are there things about a traditional ceremony you might miss? Find a way to work them in in your own way. And remember that you’re choosing a more low-key event to reduce stress, pressure and to really enjoy the moment.
