It’s the centerpiece of every marriage ceremony: declaring your vows to each other. It’s a tradition that’s been around since Roman times (maybe even earlier), but this doesn’t mean you have to do it the same way that it’s always been done. Birkat Elyon has been around the wedding business for years, offering couples beautiful, affordable cubic zirconia engagement and wedding rings. Here’s the scoop on the newest trends in creating and exchanging your wedding vows.
WRITE YOUR OWN
Granted, this has been around for a bit, but for a good reason. Writing your own vows allows you to be as heartfelt, creative, and personal as you like. You can reference “in” jokes, favorite movie quotes, you name it.
A PRIVATE EXCHANGE
This one has been taking off and even has a name: “mini-mony” (mini ceremony). Many couples admit that their biggest fear is taking their vows in front of all those people. So, an intimate, private ceremony in front of just close friends and family is a perfect alternative. From a logistics perspective, your guests can enjoy a cocktail hour or pose for the wedding photographer as you do your vows privately. Then it’s on to a traditional wedding reception. You can even have a videographer record your vows and show highlights at the reception.
FRAME YOUR VOWS
This makes for a lovely piece of artwork, a reminder of the strength of your bond and that very special day.
A WEDDING VOW KEEPSAKE
Save your vows in a special leather-bound book. Maybe add some meaningful photos from the ceremony. However you choose to do it, it will make for a wonderful keepsake for one of the big moments in your life.
HAVE A FRIEND OFFICIATE
Instead of the traditional officiant (like a pastor or rabbi), many couples are opting to have one of their close friends lead their vows. After all, that friend knows you better and can add a deeply personal touch. Most states require an officiant to be either a notary public or ordained minister; becoming either is relatively simple and affordable. Check your state’s requirements.