Isn’t it great when you meet someone and after a little bit of time, it seems like it may be going…somewhere? What an exciting moment! However, between the just-started-dating phase and the feeling-committed stage, new couples run the risks of making some mistakes that can derail the whole thing. As a top distributor of top-quality cubic zirconia engagement rings, Birkat Elyon has heard alllll the stories of how couples got together; so here’s some expert advice to ensure your new relationship stays on track.
PUT THE PAST IN THE “VAULT”: Many people are tempted to “overshare” on those early dates, talking about past relationships that didn’t work out (and why they didn’t). On the other side of it, don’t put your date under the hot lights of interrogation. Instead, focus on the person in front of you. Keep things conversational and save the heavier parts of your past for when you know each other much better.
DON’T BRAG: Of course, you want to share your accomplishments, but don’t go overboard. Boasting is a major turnoff for everyone. If your date already likes you, you don’t have to impress them.
LISTEN: Everyone wants to be heard, but actively listening to others is a skill that most of us aren’t masters of. Giving someone your undivided attention makes them feel appreciated and special.
STAY IN THE MOMENT: The best part of a new relationship is finding out all about each other. It’s fun, but it can also be a little overwhelming. If you find yourself racing ahead too far into your future together, remind yourself to stay present; there are still important things to learn. On that same note, if your head is telling you one thing, but your gut says something else, pay attention to that, as well.
DON’T COMPARE: It’s totally natural to compare your new person to past relationships. But that doesn’t mean it’s a good thing (especially if you tell them). Instead, ask yourself if you’re dating this person because you’re trying to get even with or impress someone – or if you genuinely like them.
DON’T BE NEEDY: When you first start a relationship, you’re likely spending most of your time together. But constant texting or demanding they see you over family or friends is just…bad.
ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS: It’s easy to get caught up in big, exciting plans for the future, like a trip to Europe for the following year. But if your new partner isn’t fully available right now – well, then it’s just a lot of hot air. What do they actually commit to – and follow through with? Remember that when you’re ready to take your new relationship to the next level, Birkat Elyon offers high-quality CZ jewelry pieces. They’re perfect for a special occasion or when you decide to make the big commitment