Relationships are not like how they seem in the movies: they require regular attention to keep both partners happy and on the same page. But it doesn’t have to be hard. For years, Birkat Elyon has been supplying happy couples with dazzling cubic zirconia jewelry, and we’ve learned a thing or two. Here’s how to keep things humming along in your marriage!
MAKE YOURSELF A PRIORITY
This doesn’t mean being selfish – it just means that you might be expecting your partner to provide fulfillment that you could get on your own. Ensure that you have hobbies, interests, and things that strengthen your sense of self. You’ll be less likely to have unrealistic expectations around your partner.
AVOID SOCIAL MEDIA COMPARISONS
For better or worse, social media has become the town square where we share literally everything, from food to a fab vacation. Seeing seemingly “perfect” couples with their cute selfies sets up unhealthy comparisons and can make you question your own relationship. Don’t fall into that trap. (Unless of course you want to share a pic of you flashing some gorgeous cubic zirconia jewelry…)
PLAY THE CHECK-IN GAME
This is a fun relationship-strengthener and helps you avoid missed signals. Grab a deck of cards and set a timer for ten minutes. High card goes first. Now, share what was both great and awful about your day – then let your partner do the same. You’ll both have a context for any negative emotional states that might crop up later and won’t read things that aren’t there.
BALANCE THE NEGATIVES WITH POSITIVES
It’s so easy to just focus on things that bug you. But a good rule of thumb is, for every negative thing you say to your partner, mention five positive things (not all at once). It’s a good habit to get into. You can also show your appreciation with the occasional gift of a lovely piece of affordable, dazzling CZ jewelry!