There are big weddings, elopements…and now, the trend of “micro-weddings.” These ceremonies hover somewhere between having a bevy of bridesmaids and one in which you and your honey sneak off without anyone knowing about it. “Micro-weddings” are a thing – and they offer a new alternative for couples. Birkat Elyon, who’ve long been providing couples with high-quality cubic zirconia wedding rings offers these helpful guidelines if you opt for a micro-wedding (and why you should consider one).
The average cost of a wedding runs about $35,000. And that’s an “average,” based on 2016 data. Let’s not even start on the time and energy planning that ceremony requires (#bridezilla). A micro-wedding offers some of the best features without the big price tag and big headaches.
START WITH YOUR “MUST-HAVES”
One of you may want a non-denominational ceremony. The other may want a special location or an extra-yummy cake. When you’re keeping it bare-bones, work to settle on those elements that will make both of you happy.
YOU MAY STILL WANT TO HIRE A COORDINATOR
Even if it’s not on the level of Meghan Markle’s wedding to Prince Harry, any special occasion like this requires some planning. To keep your stress levels down and truly enjoy the day, a coordinator to field texts, emails, and any vendors can be a lifesaver. They can also keep an eye on the clock, so you don’t have to think about when is the right time to cut the cake.
BE AWARE THAT THERE MAY BE PUSHBACK
Some folks in your world may not be thrilled at a more intimate event – or that you’re keeping the guest list small. Be ready to make your case, but remember that this is YOUR day and decision.
SMALLER RECEPTIONS HAVE A BIGGER UPSIDE
Micro-wedding receptions can be more easily customized – not to mention run a lot cheaper. Plus, they give the couple more time to spend with their friends and family members. Some couples may opt for a small luncheon event, even a picnic in a park. Fewer moving parts makes it easier to make your post-ceremony party exactly what you want.
WEAR WHAT YOU WANT
The thing about a micro-wedding is, the bride (not to mention, the groom) can wear whatever makes them feel the most awesome. That can range from a well-loved suit to dressing up like a character from a favorite movie. Or, opt for the over-the-top gown. The beauty part is, micro-weddings give you the flexibility (and extra cash) to splurge a little bit.
CONSIDER A REGISTRY
Even if you are “downsizing” on the ceremony, you are setting up a house (or amplifying it). A wedding registry can deliver some special items you’ll always use and treasure. The best part? You can easily customize it to your guests’ budget, and choose only those things you’ll most love (meaning, no doubles on that same vase).
A wedding is a big “life moment,” one that you’ll want to have special memories of. If an over-the-top ceremony feels like too much but an elopement feels like too little, look into throwing your own “micro-wedding.” You can enjoy the best parts of the event, without a lot of the stress or budget issues. Best of all, you can make it totally and completely your own.
Along those lines, opting for a high-quality cubic zirconia engagement ring or wedding ring from Birkat Elyon is another smart trend. They’re more affordable than over-priced diamonds and virtually indistinguishable. So embrace these new trends and get the most of your micro-wedding!