More couples today are “blending” their families. Others just come from a family with a lottttttt of kids. Whatever your situation is, including little ones (and maybe some big ones) at your wedding is a wonderful way to celebrate your special family bonds. Sure, they can be the always-popular flower girl or ring bearer, but Birkat Elyon (purveyor of quality cubic zirconia engagement and wedding rings) has some other creative ways to include kids in your wedding.
MAKE THEM JUNIOR PHOTOGRAPHERS
Older kids who know their way around a digital camera would be a natural adjunct to the professional photographer you’ve booked. But giving disposable cameras to little ones will add a cute, different perspective on the day
INVITE THEM TO THE CAKE-TASTING
Show your kids that their opinion about wedding details matters. Besides the fact that most kids love cake, they’ll also love the fact that they helped pick out the flavor. By the way, if they pick one you’re not on board with, ask the baker to do a “half and half” version. Or maybe a special cake all their own!
LET THEM HELP WITH SIMPLE CRAFTS
Stamping envelopes, putting together “welcome” baskets, even writing out place cards…inviting kids to help out with easy arts-and-craft tasks will make them feel extra-important.
INCLUDE THEM IN YOUR VOWS
For couples who already have children, recognizing them within the wedding vows lets them know that they’ll be part of a new family. You might even have a calligraphed version made to hang in your (new) home.
PULL THEM IN A WAGON
This is an adorable trend for babies and toddlers who are too young to walk. A bridesmaid or groomsmen brings them down the aisle in a specially-decorated wagon.
LET THEM “WALK THE DOG”
Many couples want to include a beloved pet in their ceremony. This could be a perfect role for a child to handle, assuming they’re already extremely comfortable with handling them. Note that animals can get excited during an occasion like this, so it would be a good idea to have an adult on “standby” just in case the pet gets rowdy.
HAVE THEM WALK YOU DOWN THE AISLE
It doesn’t always have to be a parent: having one of your children walk you down the aisle (especially if they’re older) can be extra meaningful.
GIVE THEM A SPECIAL GIFT
Brides and grooms often exchange a personal gift on the day of the wedding (and Birkat Elyon has some dazzling ideas). You can extend this tradition to the children in your world. They’ll never forget it.
HAVE THEM PERFORM
If a child is especially talented or confident, having them sing a “special” song or recite a poem will wow your guests. Being in the spotlight will make them feel extra special. You could also do a parent-child dance to a song that they pick.
The youngest members of a family can add considerably to your wedding day – even if it’s just upping the “cute factor.” With its selection of exceptional cubic zirconia pieces (for a partner or a member of the wedding party), Birkat Elyon is pleased to become a part of your celebration!