A marriage proposal is one of THE big moments in a couple’s life. Expectations (and pressure) can be high to make it extra memorable. Should the “proposer” get down on one knee? Where should it take place? Should you ask the parents for permission ahead of time? Should you pick out the engagement ring before the proposal, or choose it together afterward? Whew! That’s a lot to consider. Birkat Elyon offers these tips to make your marriage proposal perfect.
KNOW THE FAMILY
Hopefully, you understand your future spouse’s family well enough to know whether they would appreciate a “heads-up” before the proposal. The head of a more traditional family might want to be asked if the marriage can move forward. That might be a father, step-father or grandparent who played a big role in raising your spouse-to-be. Give respect and consideration to your future in-laws.
TIMING IS EVERYTHING
If your partner is going through a stressful time, is overwhelmed at work or otherwise not in a good place, save the proposal for a better moment. The last thing you want is for them to reply, “Ummm…what were you saying?” after you pop the question. On that same note, if the two of you have been fighting about something, save the proposal for a quieter, more romantic time.
AVOID THE “SILLY”
Sadly, there are tales of engagement rings being attached to a kite string or balloon – and it suddenly flies away. Oops! It’s OK to make a proposal fun, but consider what could go wrong.
KEEP IT SIMPLE
On that same note, keep your marriage proposal plans romantic – but simple. The more complicated the plan, the more chances for things to go sideways.
WHAT IS “ROMANTIC”?
The perfect marriage proposal may involve a spot where you had your first date or first kiss. It may take place at a location that’s extra-meaningful for one or both of you. You might play “your” song in the background. Think about what your partner loves, from a certain movie to special food, and plan around it.
KEEP IT PRIVATE
Sure, you see those couple who get engaged at a big family party, or via the “Jumbotron” at a sports stadium. But that can really up the pressure. It’s best to keep this big moment between the two of you.
MAINTAIN A SENSE OF HUMOR
You know what they say about “the best-laid plans.” When it comes to big moments, things can easily go awry – and that includes marriage proposals.
It’s important to have a plan for when you pop the question, but if that plan falls apart, it’s equally important to be able to laugh and go with the flow. The most important thing is showing your love – and offering a symbol of that love with a gorgeous ring. Birkat Elyon has you covered with beautiful, affordable engagement and wedding rings that will remind you of your devotion far into your future together.