There are so many things that long-married couples will tell you, the kind of “been there/done that” advice designed to keep you happy and on track. You know, things like “Don’t go to bed mad” and “Honesty is always best.” But every couple is different, and some standard relationship tips may not always be the best fit. Birkat Elyon has long been the destination for couples seeking high-quality cubic zirconia engagement and wedding rings. They’ve “seen it all” and have compiled these somewhat unorthodox pieces of advice from various relationship experts.
IT’S OK TO GO TO BED MAD
If you and your partner are tired or stressed-out, continuing to argue about a difficult issue can be counterproductive and will just make things worse. The main thing is to tell him/her that you WILL revisit the conversation when you’re both in a better frame of mind. A good night’s sleep will help. PS – avoid the urge to get in one last “dig” before turning off the lights.
THE OCCASIONAL “WHITE LIE” IS FINE
There are some occasions when discretion is the better option. For instance, your partner has made you a nice meal (which tastes awful). Better to thank them than to complain that their new recipe smells like dirty socks. When it comes to white lies, determine what is kind and what’s hiding something you really need to say. If something is truly bothering you, then you need to be honest.
MONEY IS A BIG DEAL
Issues around finance are one of the biggest contributors to relationship problems. One spends, one is a saver, or both of you are more extravagant than you can afford to be. For anyone thinking that “true love” is the only thing needed to get them through, wake up. It’s important to have regular talks about your financial goals and beliefs, and how you will achieve them together. A session with a financial planning expert can also be enormously helpful in resolving the differences in your attitudes towards money.
YOU DON’T HAVE TO BE BEST FRIENDS
There’s been this thing that says we should be with our “best friend.” However, there are some issues you may not want to put on your partner. And there are some things he or she may simply not be interested in talking about. Some experts note that it’s fine to have someone else to share with and confide in (and it’s probably best if it’s not a family member). Just be sure that you’re maintaining the boundaries of your relationship and not disrespecting your partner with what you’re sharing.
SEND A TEXT THAT’S A LITTLE MORE, UM, “PERSONAL”
You’ve probably heard that sending a sweet voicemail, email or text during the day will help you stay connected to your partner – especially when you’re both busy. But what if you made that text a little sexier? Upping the heat of those (very) private messages is guaranteed to put a smile on your partner’s face.
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