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Planning a wedding is fun and exciting, but it also includes many landmines that can go off at any time. Since the 1980s, Birkat Elyon<\/a> has worked with hundreds of couples, providing them with gorgeous cubic zirconia engagement and wedding rings<\/a>. We\u2019ve heard it all, so here are our tips for navigating some of the most common fights that happen around wedding planning.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

MONEY<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

This is the Big One for most couples. Deciding how much to spend on the celebration and who will be responsible for what creates a lot of stress. It\u2019s essential to establish a budget early on in the planning and focus only on those elements that are the \u201cmusts\u201d on your list. Note: one smart move being made by many couples today is opting for a CZ wedding ring<\/a> over real diamonds. They\u2019re virtually indistinguishable and far more affordable!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

TRADITIONS<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s a given that someone in your family group may be disappointed that you\u2019re not following certain established traditions for your wedding. Have an honest conversation with them about your wishes, and \u2013 if you can \u2013 find a compromise.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

GUEST LIST<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

This can be tricky, especially if your in-laws insist on inviting certain people that may affect the head count (and your budget). Be firm about your budget but work to distribute the guests evenly between you and your partner\u2019s families.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

WHO DOES WHAT<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Planning a wedding involves lots of details and it\u2019s all too easy for one person to feel like they\u2019re doing most of the heavy lifting. Avoid this particular fight by sitting down early on and going over the \u201cto do\u201d list. Focus on the details and aspects of the wedding that each of you most care about and divide the list accordingly.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

In the end, remember that your wedding is about celebrating your commitment to each other. Don\u2019t get bogged down in the petty arguments; keep your eye on the prize, which is enjoying a wonderful occasion!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Planning a wedding is fun and exciting, but it also includes many landmines that can go off at any time. Since the 1980s, Birkat Elyon has worked with hundreds of couples, providing them with gorgeous cubic zirconia engagement and wedding rings. We\u2019ve heard it all, so here are our tips for navigating some of the most common fights that happen around wedding planning. MONEY This is the Big One for…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":191,"featured_media":3317,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6,130],"tags":[225,11,137,117,120],"yoast_head":"\nCommon Fights Around Wedding Planning – BirkatElyonBlog<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Planning a wedding requires all hands on deck. But sometimes, one of those "hands" winds up doing most of the work. 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