{"id":3170,"date":"2024-02-28T10:22:28","date_gmt":"2024-02-28T15:22:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.birkatelyon.com\/blog\/?p=3170"},"modified":"2024-02-28T10:22:30","modified_gmt":"2024-02-28T15:22:30","slug":"4-things-that-can-wreck-a-marriage","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.birkatelyon.com\/blog\/4-things-that-can-wreck-a-marriage\/","title":{"rendered":"4 Things That Can Wreck A Marriage"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>A good marriage doesn\u2019t run on autopilot. Maintaining the things that first drew the two of you together requires some attention. Birkat Elyon, which specializes in high-quality <a href=\"https:\/\/www.birkatelyon.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" aria-label=\" (opens in a new tab)\">cubic zirconia jewelry,<\/a> has interacted with all kinds of couples over the years. Here are four things experts note that can really derail a marriage.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>LACK OF INTIMACY<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Intimacy \u2013 both physical and emotional \u2013 is what holds a relationship together, Of course, it\u2019s really easy to let that fall by the wayside when you\u2019re busy with work, raising kids, and all the rest. Before you know it, you\u2019re living like roommates. Making \u201calone\u201d time is essential, as is simply paying attention to your partner every day. Hint: one way to show your partner that you care is with a special piece of <a href=\"https:\/\/www.birkatelyon.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" aria-label=\" (opens in a new tab)\">cubic zirconia jewelry<\/a>. We have all kinds of beautiful, affordable options!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>LACK OF HONESTY<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This isn\u2019t just the kind of \u201chonesty\u201d where you admit that\nyou forgot to feed the fish: we\u2019re talking secret behaviors, like an increasing\naddiction, or problematic spending habits. Hiding things from your partner is a\nvery slippery slope and creates a distance where all kinds of destructive actions\ncan occur.&nbsp; Dishonesty also includes\nthings like lying about how you really feel. Saying \u201cI\u2019m fine\u201d may be the\neasier response, but if you\u2019re not, that\u2019s a lie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>CONTROLLING BEHAVIOR<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When power and control are used in a relationship, it never ends well. It can take many forms, including emotional manipulation and verbal abuse. If your relationship is showing signs of this, it\u2019s a good time to look into some counseling.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>LACK OF RESPECT<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cRespect\u201d covers a lot of emotional ground. It\u2019s about\nshowing kindness and care to your partner. It means showing interest and\nsoft-pedaling the negativity and criticism. Respect means valuing them, just as\nyou would care for a prized possession<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You can show how much value your partner with a little surprise gift! Birkat Elyon offers beautiful, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.birkatelyon.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" aria-label=\" (opens in a new tab)\">affordable cubic zirconia jewelry<\/a> for both men and women!<\/p>\n<!-- AddThis Advanced Settings generic via filter on the_content --><!-- AddThis Share Buttons generic via filter on the_content -->","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A good marriage doesn\u2019t run on autopilot. 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