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So, you\u2019ve declared your commitment to live happily ever after, \u2018til death do you part. But let\u2019s face it, marriage can be hard work \u2013 no matter how much you adore each other. What are the smartest ways to navigate the ups and downs that every couple goes through? Birkat Elyon<\/a> has worked with so many couples over the years, providing them with the best quality CZ engagement and wedding rings<\/a>. Here are great tips, courtesy of some folks whose marriages have endured.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

USE HUMOR<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cracking jokes with each other lessens the tension and\ncreates a certain bond. Even when in your \u201cdignified\u201d older age, don\u2019t miss the\nchance to have a good laugh together. You may find yourself laughing so much\nyou won\u2019t have time to fight.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

DON\u2019T BE STUBBORN<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you\u2019re the type who always needs to have the last word,\nwell, long-loving couples are here to tell you that it\u2019s so not worth it.\nConsider that your partner may have a different perspective or preference.\nLearn to hold your tongue — but not<\/em> to hold a grudge.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

THINK ABOUT LIFE WITHOUT THEM<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

This \u201cthought exercise\u201d is a great way to restore some\nbalance to your relationship. Imagine the fun and good times you\u2019d miss out on\nif your partner hadn\u2019t been around. Or the support you\u2019ve gotten during a rough\npatch.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

DON\u2019T ASSUME ANYTHING<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your spouse is upset or worried about something, don\u2019t\nassume you know what it is. Neither of you is a mind-reader. Clear\ncommunication is essential, but if the time isn\u2019t right to talk, agree to\naddress it later when you\u2019re both more responsive.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

KEEP IT INTIMATE<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

This isn\u2019t just about sex; the little ways you each communicate intimacy are the glue that holds a relationship together. This means a kiss in the morning, turning off your phones at night to just enjoy each other\u2019s company, sending a text during the day to check in, holding hands.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

BE GRATEFUL<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Gratitude is powerful. Showing true appreciation to your spouse for little things like taking out the trash or big things like a nice gift<\/a> isn\u2019t just polite, it has a positive ripple effect throughout your relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

TELL THEM WHAT YOU NEED<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

As well as you think you know each other, be clear on what\nit is you need. If your partner tries to guess, it will make things worse. Be\ndirect.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

HONOR AND NURTURE THE FRIENDSHIP<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Yes, you\u2019re husband and wife, but you\u2019re also friends. Remember the things that brought you together and interact with each other \u2013 not just as a married couple \u2013 but as \u201cfriends.\u201d Don\u2019t make every conversation about the kids, the mortgage, or where to go on the next vacation; hang out as friends would.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

LEARN TO APOLOGIZE<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

This can be a tough one \u2013 but a sincere apology is essential\nin keeping a relationship healthy. It doesn\u2019t necessarily mean saying that\nyou\u2019re in the wrong, but if your argument resulted in hurt feelings or\nmisunderstandings, owning up to it goes a long way towards healing. Put aside\nyour ego in favor of the bigger picture.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

So, you\u2019ve declared your commitment to live happily ever after, \u2018til death do you part. But let\u2019s face it, marriage can be hard work \u2013 no matter how much you adore each other. What are the smartest ways to navigate the ups and downs that every couple goes through? Birkat Elyon has worked with so many couples over the years, providing them with the best quality CZ engagement and wedding…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":191,"featured_media":2797,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[130],"tags":[225,137,131,119,117],"yoast_head":"\nGreat Advice from Long-Married Couples - BirkatElyonBlog<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Even the best relationship will be tested. 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