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You know, things like \u201cDon\u2019t go to bed mad\u201d and \u201cHonesty is always best.\u201d But every couple is different, and some standard relationship tips may not always be the best fit. <a href=\"http:\/\/www.birkatelyon.com\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Birkat Elyon<\/a> has long been the destination for couples seeking <a href=\"https:\/\/www.birkatelyon.com\/bridal\/engagement-rings\">high-quality cubic zirconia engagement<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.birkatelyon.com\/bridal\/wedding-ring-sets\">wedding rings<\/a>. They\u2019ve \u201cseen it all\u201d and have compiled these somewhat unorthodox pieces of advice from various relationship experts.<\/p>\n<h3>IT\u2019S OK TO GO TO BED MAD<\/h3>\n<p>If you and your partner are tired or stressed-out, continuing to argue about a difficult issue can be counterproductive and will just make things worse. The main thing is to tell him\/her that you WILL revisit the conversation when you\u2019re both in a better frame of mind. A good night\u2019s sleep will help. PS \u2013 avoid the urge to get in one last \u201cdig\u201d before turning off the lights.<\/p>\n<h3>THE OCCASIONAL &#8220;WHITE LIE&#8221; IS FINE<\/h3>\n<p>There are some occasions when discretion is the better option. For instance, your partner has made you a nice meal (which tastes awful). Better to thank them than to complain that their new recipe smells like dirty socks. When it comes to white lies, determine what is kind and what\u2019s hiding something you <em>really<\/em> need to say. If something is truly bothering you, then you need to be honest.<\/p>\n<h3>MONEY <em>IS<\/em> A BIG DEAL<\/h3>\n<p>Issues around finance are one of the biggest contributors to relationship problems. One spends, one is a saver, or both of you are more extravagant than you can afford to be. For anyone thinking that \u201ctrue love\u201d is the only thing needed to get them through, wake up. It\u2019s important to have regular talks about your financial goals and beliefs, and how you will achieve them together. A session with a financial planning expert can also be enormously helpful in resolving the differences in your attitudes towards money.<\/p>\n<h3>YOU <em>DON\u2019T<\/em> HAVE TO BE BEST FRIENDS<\/h3>\n<p>There\u2019s been this thing that says we should be with our \u201cbest friend.\u201d However, there are some issues you may not want to put on your partner. And there are some things he or she may simply not be interested in talking about. Some experts note that it\u2019s fine to have someone else to share with and confide in (and it\u2019s probably best if it\u2019s not a family member). Just be sure that you\u2019re maintaining the boundaries of your relationship and not disrespecting your partner with what you\u2019re sharing.<\/p>\n<h3>SEND A TEXT THAT\u2019S A LITTLE MORE, UM, \u201cPERSONAL\u201d<\/h3>\n<p>You\u2019ve probably heard that sending a sweet voicemail, email or text during the day will help you stay connected to your partner \u2013 especially when you\u2019re both busy. But what if you made that text a little sexier? Upping the heat of those (very) private messages is guaranteed to put a smile on your partner\u2019s face.<\/p>\n<p>Besides gorgeous CZ choices for weddings and engagements, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.birkatelyon.com\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Birkat Elyon<\/a> has a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.birkatelyon.com\/cubic-zirconia-rings\/designer-inspirations\">full line of dazzling, affordable jewelry pieces<\/a> for men and women. 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