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We\u2019ll see.<\/p>\n<h3>PLANTING A TREE<\/h3>\n<p>In some European countries, the couple would plant a tree (generally, a pine) at their new home prior to the wedding ceremony. It was meant to symbolize good luck in their new start.<\/p>\n<h3>THE FIRST LOOK<\/h3>\n<p>This is still a bit of a superstition, that the groom shouldn\u2019t \u201csee\u201d the bride before the ceremony. However, more couples are taking their chances and staging a \u201cfirst look\u201d photo op. It captures some of the magic, and it has the added benefit of calming pre-ceremony jitters.<\/p>\n<h3>RINGS CAN <em>ONLY<\/em> BE A DIAMOND<\/h3>\n<p>This actually started as a major 1939 advertising campaign. Today, many brides are opting for other gemstones, like an amethyst \u2013 or a more affordable <a href=\"https:\/\/www.birkatelyon.com\/bridal\/engagement-rings\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">cubic zirconia piece<\/a>. Diamonds are sooo\u2026.last century.<\/p>\n<h3>VEILS WEREN\u2019T FOR EVERYONE<\/h3>\n<p>According to one 19<sup>th<\/sup> century etiquette handbook, bridal veils were only meant for younger brides. If you were a widow or a \u201clady of a certain age,\u201d you were to were a bonnet.<\/p>\n<h3>A COIN IN THE SHOE<\/h3>\n<p>A silver sixpence piece was typically part of a British bride\u2019s get-up. She would tuck it in her shoe as a way to generate good luck in her marriage. Other cultures adapted this, slipping any random coin in the bridal footwear. Hey, can&#8217;t hurt. Unless you have tender tootsies.<\/p>\n<h3>WEEKDAY WEDDINGS<\/h3>\n<p>While most modern couples schedule their celebration for a weekend, it used to be that that was considered uncommonly tacky. One bridal book of etiquette from the very early 20<sup>th<\/sup> century helped couples select a date using the following formula: \u201cMonday for wealth, Tuesday for health, Wednesday best day of all; Thursday for losses, Friday for crosses, Saturday no luck at all.\u201d<\/p>\n<h3>SOMETHING BORROWED \u2013 BUT PERHAPS NOT WHAT YOU WANT<\/h3>\n<p>Yes, we all know the \u201csomething borrowed\u201d chant. Back in the day, that didn\u2019t mean just a handkerchief or grandma\u2019s earrings; the bride would wear underwear belonging to a woman who\u2019d already had kids. The idea was to enhance her own fertility.<\/p>\n<h3>WHITE DRESSES WERE NOT <em>ALWAYS <\/em>THE THING<\/h3>\n<p>Queen Victoria was one of England\u2019s longest-reigning monarchs. During her time on the throne, she set many trends \u2013 and the white wedding dress is among them. Before her 1840 marriage to Prince Albert, where she showed up in a flowing white gown, brides chose to wear whatever color they wanted.<\/p>\n<h3>SNAKE RINGS<\/h3>\n<p>Speaking of Queen Victoria, a ring shaped like a snake was once all the rage. Prince Albert proposed to her with one featuring emeralds in the eyes. Once the public got wind, \u201csnake rings\u201d became the <em>defacto <\/em>wedding jewelry, symbolizing a circle of eternal devotion.<\/p>\n<h3>CARRYING A SMELLY BOUQUET<\/h3>\n<p>Time was when folks didn&#8217;t bathe so much. Thus, bridal bouquets were almost a form of deodorant. They were made of pungent plants like lavender, dill \u2013 even garlic. Apparently, some of these herbs had the benefit of warding off evil spirits on the big day.<\/p>\n<h3>SIMPLE RECEPTIONS<\/h3>\n<p>There was a time (as recently as the 1960s) when many couples opted for super-simple post-wedding events. Cake and punch were pretty much all that was served (as well as a smaller bill to the bride&#8217;s family).<\/p>\n<p>One of the newest (and smartest) traditions is opting for a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.birkatelyon.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">dazzling, affordable cubic zirconia engagement or wedding ring<\/a>. Luxurious pieces from Birkat Elyon offer the same beauty, but at a much more affordable price-point. Which leaves couples with more money to start their new life together!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<!-- AddThis Advanced Settings generic via filter on the_content --><!-- AddThis Share Buttons generic via filter on the_content -->","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You probably know the standard saying, \u201cSomething old, something new, something borrowed, something blue.\u201d But there are a host of traditions surrounding a wedding \u2013 some of which are still around, others which have been discarded like a wilted bridal bouquet. 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