{"id":1690,"date":"2016-12-20T22:09:02","date_gmt":"2016-12-21T03:09:02","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/birkatel.nextmp.net\/blog\/?p=1690"},"modified":"2019-07-30T17:10:44","modified_gmt":"2019-07-30T21:10:44","slug":"tips-for-maintaining-a-healthy-marriage-part-iii","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.birkatelyon.com\/blog\/tips-for-maintaining-a-healthy-marriage-part-iii\/","title":{"rendered":"Tips for Maintaining a Healthy Marriage: Part III"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/12\/Cubic-Zirconia-Engagement-Ring.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-1691\" src=\"\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/12\/Cubic-Zirconia-Engagement-Ring.jpg\" alt=\"Cubic Zirconia Engagement Ring\" width=\"600\" height=\"360\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>The year is just about to come to a close as we head into the high holidays, but one thing that never comes to a close is marriage. At least, you shouldn\u2019t want it to. And if you want to ensure your marriage is a healthy, happy, long-lasting one, check out the tips below and then circle back to our other tips <a href=\"https:\/\/www.birkatelyon.com\/blog\/tips-for-maintaining-a-healthy-marriage\/\">here<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.birkatelyon.com\/blog\/tips-for-a-healthy-marriage-part-2\/\">here<\/a> if you\u2019ve missed them.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Be Certain That Marriage Is Right for the Two of You<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Before you take any of the other steps to ensure your marriage stays healthy and happy for the long run, there\u2019s one pre-marriage step you have to take. You have to be certain that getting married is right for the two of you. Marriage isn\u2019t right for every couple or even every person, and it\u2019s not a cure-all for problems with your relationship. Be absolutely certain that spending forever together is something you both want equally and that you\u2019re prepared for the ups and downs. If you don\u2019t, then no amount of tips and tricks will work after you\u2019ve tied the knot.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Publicly Complement Each Other<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Have something nice to say about your partner? Don\u2019t keep it to yourself, or even between the two of you. Say it in public so they understand how proud you are to be with them. This is great for building self-esteem as well as deepening your connection to each other. And if you have children, this will go a long way toward setting a great example for them as to how to behave when they\u2019re married adults.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Maintain Your Optimism <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Take advice from a song and \u201calways look on the bright side of life.\u201d If you think positively about your marriage, then it\u2019s more likely your marriage will indeed be a positive one. Whereas if you focus on the negative stuff, it\u2019s likely to boil over more and come to the surface often, making the two of you resent one another.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Don\u2019t Worry About Liking Everything About Each Other<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Many individuals believe that truly happy couples are 100 percent in love with 100 percent of each other\u2019s traits 100 percent of the time. Meanwhile, back here in reality land, that just isn\u2019t the case. Everyone can name at least one thing they don\u2019t like about everyone they know, so why would your spouse be any different? You don\u2019t have to like every single quality about the person you marry. You do, however, have to be able to live with them. Does the good outweigh the bad? Is the bad really all that bad? Answering those questions will help you to determine whether you can overcome the stuff you don\u2019t like for the sake of enjoying the stuff you love forever.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Enjoy the Quiet Times<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>What\u2019s the best way to overcome a problem? Well, it depends on the problem, of course. However, one reliably effective method is simply walking away and staying silent about it. Every single little offense doesn\u2019t have to be beaten into the ground. Try to bite your tongue from time to time and learn to forgive and forget and to just let things go on occasion. Remind yourself of the good qualities to help yourself overlook some of the bad ones. Don\u2019t just quietly let things fester, either. Truly let go of your anger about them. You\u2019ll both be happier that way.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Be Ready for Temptation<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>We\u2019re all only human, and humans are all tempted to stray from time to time. It happens. But what doesn\u2019t need to happen is you acting on those temptations. Recognize before you get married that you will continue to be tempted throughout your life and be prepared to deny those temptations. If you find yourself particularly enticed to stray from being a faithful spouse, think of something positive about your spouse that makes you really happy. Remember that you care about that person and that you don\u2019t want to lose them.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Only Agree When You Really Mean It<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Speaking of temptations, it can be tempting to just agree to things you don\u2019t want any part of to quickly end the conversation and move on, but you really shouldn\u2019t do that. It will come back to haunt you. And if you think being agreeable will avoid conflicts, well, you\u2019re right \u2013 for now. Instead, you\u2019ll have a bigger, harsher conflict later when it comes to light that you didn\u2019t do the thing you said you would and never intended to. Avoid going down that road at all costs.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Cubic Zirconia Jewelry<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019ve thought about our first tip from this post and come to realize that marriage is indeed right for the two of you, then you know what you have to do next: purchase a beautiful <a href=\"https:\/\/www.birkatelyon.com\/cubic-zirconia-engagement-rings\" class=\"broken_link\"> cubic zirconia engagement ring<\/a>. Yes, cubic zirconia. High-quality cubic zirconia captures the light as beautifully as real diamonds for a fraction of the cost, and being smart with your money is another great way to ensure a healthy marriage.<\/p>\n<!-- AddThis Advanced Settings generic via filter on the_content --><!-- AddThis Share Buttons generic via filter on the_content -->","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The year is just about to come to a close as we head into the high holidays, but one thing that never comes to a close is marriage. At least, you shouldn\u2019t want it to. 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